Here is a book I would recommend to anybody. It was written by Pat Craven who as a probation officer ran workshops for male ‘perpetrators’ of violence against women and children She categorises different types of controlling behaviour and explains how to spot, avoid and /or manage: The Dominator The Bully The Headworker The jailer The liar The badfather The King of the Castle The sexual controller The persuader 
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